A few weeks ago my father turned 89 years old and my worry went up a notch – if that’s even possible.
He’s in relatively good health, but he can’t walk and he can’t figure it out and he won’t use any walking devices. Therefore, he’s always falling, which he thinks looks more manly. He also can’t access the time he lays in the street or on the floor because he falls into his bedroom wall every time he gets up in the morning. If you go into his bedroom, you’ll find many head imprints.
“I was only down for about a half hour before someone helped me,” he says.
“OMG, he was down for about two hours by the time I found him,” the neighbor says.
I always tell him, “you’re lucky you’re only hitting your head (because it’s so hard, get it?)”
If that isn’t enough, he also drives a big Cadillac and he won’t stop. I found some laughable ideas on the internet that may help.
They include: disabling their car, selling their car and telling them you can’t find their car keys after you’ve hidden them.
None of these ideas will actually work and I find I need help. How did you stop your elderly parents from driving? Please let me know at email@example.com.
A new product tastes like maple syrup and packs a punch.
In fact, the CBD product is being brought to market by two female entrepreneurs who have found a new way to combine elegance and CBD oil in a probiotic combination called Brielle PROPRIETARY probiotic CBD OIL.
Unlike other CBD oils, Brielle CBD Oil includes proven probiotic properties which aid in digestion and keep a healthy environment for the body. The product was aided in its creation by CEO Maria Smithson and her sister and company President Kate Smithson. Its uniquely designed bottle showcases a whole new look in the packaging of CBD oil.
Maria is based in Chicago after acceptance in the Illinois School of Professional Psychology’s Neuropsychology Doctoral program. She decided to pause pursuing her doctorate to start Brielle. Maria and Kate grew up culturing probiotics. They are from a family of medical doctors and their brother owns two CBD companies. Kate has a degree in behavioral analysis and a background as a wellness coordinator.
How does Brielle work? Its proven properties ensure a healthier gut. For example, scientists noticed a while back that children with diarrhea had a different bacterial makeup of their digestive tract. Normally functioning, or good bacteria, prevents bad bacteria from taking root in our gut making us feel poorly. In extreme cases, such as E-coli breakouts, bad bacteria can be deadly.
Brielle uses 3rd party lab testing. Products are made from hemp exclusively grown in the United States. Unlike Brielle, the FDA recently found that only two of 24 CBD products contain the labelled ingredients. All Brielle products are lab tested because of the company’s commitment to medical excellence.
Brielle is located in Chicago. Right now the product is available for pre-orders. For more information access bebrielle.com.
I recently joined a group of about 14 women, 13 of whom, I’ve never met before.
One of the women, Maile Peterson, a beautiful woman who doesn’t know her vast worth (like all of us), came up with the genius idea that each of us who were lonely and afraid during the Pandemic, would form a bond by sending each other a small gift. There were no rules just full anticipation and damn it, happiness.
This idea was great for me because I haven’t felt really happy in years. When I’ve laughed it’s been a shock and it doesn’t make up for my true mind-numbing unhappiness. I talk myself down from ledges almost every day and I no longer feel like the line I use to reassure others: it will all be okay.
Maile carefully compiled the list and put it on Facebook messenger for all of us to access. While I am not a crafty person, I went to Michael’s craft store and thought about making some jewelry as my gift for the other women.
I felt like a diva out of water while looking through the beads.
“How do you get them on a string?” I thought. “I better buy elastic string.”
In the end, I made toe rings! And only one. The others I sent were actually my own jewelry!
I have to get better at crafts, but I’ve received the absolute best gifts at a time when I really needed them. They include, crocheted wall hangings, a 2021 planner, puzzles and much more.
Now, when I run to the mailbox I’m pretty sure there is something special in it. I recommend everyone try this friendly group exercise. Let me know if you want in on my group at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Super bored like I am during Covid? Try Ramen noodles.
Ramen noodles, once a staple of college campuses before everyone worried about salt content, have found a home and some true believers throughout the city of the big shoulders. Variations run from basic chicken to a gourmet Ramen dinner. It’s so in demand that in the past two to three years, the not-your-grandmother’s Ramen shops have become wildly popular for take-out of course.
Jinya Ramen is a Japanese chain serving noodle soups and other foods in a modern restaurant with a Ramen bar right in the middle. The chef at Jinya told us that his favorite food is Schezuan Chicken, but he serves other favorites such as a variety of tonkotsu-based ramen but also offering variations on paitan (chicken-broth-based ramen), a few sides (or “tapas”), and rice bowls. Jinya Ramen also features pork based varieties of Ramen with honjuku egg and wood ear mushrooms. In fact, Jinya Rameen is fast becoming one of the largest and fastest-growing ramen chains in North America, with some 17 stores in six states and Canada. LBD Hours are Monday, 11 a.m.-10 p.m.; Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday 11 a.m. to 11 p.m. until midnight on Friday and Saturday and Sunday 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. at 553 W Diversey Pkwy, (773) 857-5140. $$$
At Momotaro in Chicago Chef Mark Hellyar spent time living in Japan and got immersed in its culture. The upscale restaurant features a farm to table Japanese concept, Hellyar says. In fact, he said he sources the food from fresh Japanese markets throughout Chicago. His colleague, Chef Jeff Ramsey – the only American-born chef to receive a Michelin Star in Japan – heads up the sushi bar. Momotaro also contains a subterranean Izakaya and an elegant second floor private space that overlooks the main dining room. We tried the Unagi Don which is barbecued eel rice, shiitake, kanpyo, and sansho pepper. The healthy restaurant also offers traditional fare such as the Alaskan King Crab with red chili kosho butter. D Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday 5 to 10:30 p.m.; Friday 4:30 to 11:30 p.m.; Saturday 4:30 to midnight; and Sunday 4:30 – 10:30 p.m., 820 W Lake Street Chicago, (312) 733.4818. $$$$
Looking for the next big thing? Pokiology may become known as the science of eating this delicious raw fish salad and Hawaiian staple. In fact, the new restaurant recently opened in early August at 4600 N. Magnolia Ave., Suite C in Chicago. Here, the poke bowls, which generally feature cubed raw fish in a marinade will surely be the next big thing in fast food. The new culinary phenomenon, Poke, has landed on food-trend lists for 2016, with people liking its convenience and healthy ingredients. We tried the ahi tuna over brown rice which was both tasty and a feast for the eyes. Bowls come with additions such as avocado, crab meat, wasabi and more. Drinks here include healthy juices such as apricot and guava. The meal itself or Poke, has a protein served over rice or salad. No guilt in this trendy eatery. Meals range from $10 for a regular portion to $16 for bigger sizes. Pokiology, open for L, D from 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. daily. (773) 961-7624. $$
If you like your Ramen with a touch of elegance try OIISTAR in Wicker Park. Here, the ladies that lunch can enjoy a full bar and even cartoons. There is danceable house music that makes patrons want to sip their Ramen a little bit faster. Here, there are homemade noodles with broth made daily. We tried the Goki, bbq beef, lettuce, cilantro, onion, sriracha, and cream fraiche. We also enjoyed the Ramen Tikkamen dish with chicken, masala, bean sprout, nori, and roasted sesame. Oiistar owner Chef Sunny Yim combines traditional Japanese ramen noodles with French and Italian touches. The daily-made pork stock is cooked for almost a full day to create four signature ramen dishes. Those looking for a tasty start to their meal will be pleasantly surprised by the wide variety of appetizers and signature steamed buns. L,D Lunch is Tuesday / Wednesday / Thursday – noon to 3 p.m.; Tuesday / Wednesday – 5:30 to 10 p.m.; Thursday – 5:30 to 11 p.m.; Friday / Saturday – noon to 11p.m.; Sunday – noon to 10 p.m.; closed Mondays, 1385 N. Milwaukee Avenue 773-360-8791. $$$$
My last blog talked about how I came to terms with my true love, or what I think about most during Covid quarantine. I asked you to tell me what you love and I heard from you. The most interesting note was from Dan Matthews and I’m shipping a lovely purse for his wife for his trouble.
Matthews said he always wanted to be an artist and a body builder, but took a blue collar job instead to pay the bills and make more money.
“I love body building,” Matthews says. “But I really like playing guitar and drawing. I should have gone to school for athletic training, but I messed up by taking my dad’s advice to go into some form of management.”
Indeed, Matthews went to Purdue University and received his bachelors in business.
“I loved the classes, but hated being a manager when I got my first job as a health club manager,” he says.
“While there, I really wanted to help people train with their workouts,” Matthews says. He also really liked the training and development of people, but could never find a job in corporate America.
Matthews say he probably never fit the “Bizzness” suit guy look.
“I’m more of a blue collar wearing boots guy. ”
Matthews is worried he missed his calling in life, but has decided to take some art classes and go back to bodybuilding.
Albert Einstein said, “You never fail until you stop trying.”
People like us should never stop trying and one day, we’ll feel we made it, if only for our perseverance.
The months have been going by slowly since this pandemic reared its head and my emotions are no longer anything I can control.
When I’m doing my job doing stories, I forget about everything that’s going on in this chaotic world and I think that’s called passion. During Covid-19 we’ve all been forced to at least think about the idea of passion, or true love. What do you love?
Since I’ve been stuck in the house (no job, no vacations no anything, except the grocery store and DSW) I’m always thinking about ways I can make my situation better. My sister-in-law took up crocheting and now makes beautiful blankets, some people take up a new language, and me? I just wish I could.
What’s stopping me? I certainly have the time, but I’m lacking the passion. I once went to London and visited the Victoria and Albert Museum there. It was filled with so many beautiful items, my head was spinning. The Victoria and Albert Museum is the world’s largest museum of applied and decorative arts and design, as well as sculpture. It has a permanent collection of over 2.27 million objects. It was founded in 1852 and named after Queen Victoria and Prince Albert.
What was I stuck on looking at?
The Royal wedding dresses and the jewelry collections. It took me hours to walk away from them. I was mesmerized. It was a true love that I had never felt before.
“That’s what I like,” I thought. “Fashion.”
And so it was. In the newsroom I always dressed to the nines. My shoes were cutting edge and still are (see above DSW). Everyone said I was the best dressed and thought I was a huge diva. I didn’t care. I knew they didn’t have the love of fashion that I did.
I’ve been stuck in the house during the pandemic, laid-off, and been prone to beating myself up everyday for moving back to my hometown to take care of my mother who died of cancer.
What I miss most about other cities I’ve lived in is spa access. Here, in Indiana, a spa day seems like a day you don’t have to fix your plow. There are no super relaxing, elegant spas that smell good and are handled by trained professionals.
That is until a little card came in the mail that has changed my tepid life here for the better. It’s called The Rejuvenation House Mega-Spa LLC and offers everything from my fave, Injectable Fillers (Juvederm, Restylane, etc.) to Botox which is used to treat wrinkles.
They even have the latest specialties like the Kardashian-type facials like micro-needling using your own blood platelets and putting them back in you own skin. I’m sure the Kardashians are way past this facial. They probably are using robot body parts to replace those that are imperfect. At The Rejuvenation House, I recommend starting with the signature facial before progressing to other treatments. It’s a great start for the over-50 who have not frequented spas, but should – even during a pandemic.
The expert staff also use dermoplaning, oxygen facials, and much more. For men, they offer the Mancho Pack (with a side of brewski). This is an invigorating facial that includes skin script Charcoal Refining Mask that’s formulated with anti-microbial, skin detoxifying and pore cleansing ingredients. This massage is coupled with all-natural, plant-based Smokey lumberjack beard oil and balm.
During the pandemic, The Rejuvenation House takes great precautions to avoid any type of germ contact. Clients must call from their cars signaling they are ready for a spa treatment and are let in one at a time. Consultants wear masks, gloves and are always sanitizing. For more information or an appointment, call The Rejuvenation House at 219-515-2667 or access the website at http://www.rejuvenationhouse.com.
Aging is a funny thing. It sneaks up on you, small and ignorable. You think you need the gym when you get thicker around the middle, but you don’t worry about it because you’ve finally gotten to a point in life where you can afford a gym! Then suddenly you pull a muscle, and two days of ice packs and Advil remind you that you’re not as young as you used to be.
For me, the eye-opener came after a day’s recovery from painting. That’s when I started to plan home improvement, starting with buying a mesh garden cart to haul heavy things. I found one online and had it delivered. I’ve built IKEA furniture. How hard could it be?
I didn’t make it past the 1st step. Whether it was lack of strength or loss of dexterity, I could not screw the nuts on the bolts. I thought, “Oh man, they sent the wrong size” and fired off an email complaint to the online store. But, since I didn’t really want to send everything back, I also called my brother.
My brother is actually improving with age. He’s gone from being a know-it-all to being an invaluable resource.
“Send me a picture,” he said and then explained, “That’s a locking nut. It’s not too small. It has a rubber gasket inside to keep it from coming off.” Then he explained how to use two wrenches to get the thing on.
Well, that was good to know. The fact that the locking nuts have been around since 1931 was a little harder to take. I mean, I have put together a lot of IKEA furniture and have an impressive collection of Allen wrenches to prove it. It should not take me three hours and two phone calls to put together a little cart. But then it occurred to me that I’d moved pass college-age furniture into the adult leagues and felt better – until I realized I owed the online store an apology!
About Kathy Bryson – As the writing tutor and sometimes professor, Kathy Bryson works regularly with students who reminder her not to be an old fart. She’s also an award-winning author of tongue-in-cheek fantasy who appreciates a good joke. You can learn more about her work – academic and ironic – at www.kathybrysonbooks.com
Last Monday night I was watching television show, The Bachelor, and I thought, “wait a minute, I know one of these guys.”
Here’s the way it went: I met fellow Polish person and ABC Bachelor, Chris Bukowski.
That show did not do him justice. He is almost too pretty to behold (like many Polish people, ahem). With his blue green eyes, easy manner, and shiny, white teeth, women coming into Bracket Room Sports Lounge & Eatery in Chicago, might think Bukowski is one of the owners.
But, they surely wouldn’t think he was a Bachelor in Paradise contestant. In fact, Bukowski has been the ultimate Bachelor franchise contestant. He also has appeared on The Bachelorette and Bachelor Pad.
Now, Bukowski keeps a low profile, but is definitely is a force to be reckoned with his bar, Bracket Room close to the University of Illinois. The 30-year-old Bartlett, Il. native now splits his time between Los Angeles and Chicago. He said he has missed family and will be open for business in all areas because,” I’m married to my restaurant.”
Bukowski said he’ll be moving to Chicago full-time. The Bracket Room, which features outdoor patio seating, is at 1315 S. Halsted St. in Chicago.
“It was created to celebrate the popular NCAA Brackets that showcased friendly sports conjecture,” Bukowski said.
The bar is enclosed by glass garage doors, that open during the warmer months in Chicago. Inside, Bracket Room will offer a VIP area, that will supply bottle service for large parties. There will also be late night entertainment including live music weekly.
Is Bukowski looking forward to finding love?
“Everywhere you go you take a chance,” he said
Bukowski met Katie Morton on the 6th season of Bachelor in Paradise. They got engaged on the show’s final episode. They have admitted to having a rocky relationship since filming ended, but neither are willing to give up on the relationship yet. They announced their break-up on December 10, 2019.
He is currently dating fellow Bachelor alum Katrina Badowski. Realizing that they have similar sounding last names, Katrina made up the “ship” name “The Owskis”.
Even though we are really at the height of despair with a Covid pandemic and rioting in the streets, I find that taking a mental break can sometimes help my mood.
With that in mind, Disney, which is in its reopening phases, has come up with a collection of Disney Wedding Dresses that can take you away for some real life fantasizing, whatever your age. For myself, I bought the first wedding gown that fit me in a plus size and then was sorry.
According to a Disney blog, these are Disney Princess character inspired dresses called the new Disney Fairy Tale Weddings Collection from Allure Bridals.
Due to Covid and major fashion show closings, they have been delayed coming to the stores. The elegant collection features 16 gowns inspired by the style and spirit of Disney Princess characters such as Ariel, Aurora, Belle, Jasmine, Cinderella, Pocahontas, Rapunzel, Tiana and Snow White.
Here’s a first glimpse of the Belle and Ariel inspired wedding dresses!
The Disney Fairy Tale Weddings Collection will be available at select bridal boutiques across the country. Seven of the 16 styles will be featured exclusively at Kleinfeld Bridal stores in New York and Toronto as the Disney Fairy Tale WeddingsPlatinum Collection. Including the gorgeous Tiana Platinum gown, which embodies both Tiana’s practicality and creativity in an elegant ballgown design covered in bayou-inspired shimmering vines and blossoms.
Allure Bridals was set to unveil the entire collection during New York Bridal Fashion Week in April 2020, but alas, another Covid cancellation. Follow @DisneyWeddings on social media to learn the latest updates on the Disney Fairy Tale Weddings Collection.